Stay-away from Public school. Our generation turns into their generation Do not push your kids to the Hell please.
Whenever I get a chance to speak in front of our community people I try to say something about our kids.
Because we have a common issues regarding our kids. Most of our people say:
"our kids are not obedient"
"they don't listen to us"
By dint of it
we become perplexed- distressed- distracted,
and we start running to get a solution. We go to Alem-Ulama-Imam to get a Tabeez for them. But we don't try to find out what is the reason to be disobedient?
We never ask ourselves.
To find out the perfect solution for any problem at first we need to go to
the root of problem …
reason of the problem …
If we get the root of problem it will be easy for us to root out the problem.
So why our kids are going to out of our track.
Our kids our issues are the great gift of Allah SWT
As an Amanah.
So do we treat the Amanah as a trustworthy?
Amanah is a thing that should be given back to its owner as
Is"
But what we do here …..!!
After we entered in USA, we try to put our kids into school. When we see there is public school here free of cost moreover they provide free breakfast free lunch free transportation we become so crazy to put our kids into the public school.
Having admitted our kids into the public school, actually we dug our grave stealthy but we don't realize it we don't understand it before they are in middle school and our kids are then no return point.
We don't even know what they are achieving as a knowledge.
What are they taught!
What is their ideology?
What is their faith trust and belief?
They are getting everything free food books knowledge transportation but did you think what are they loosing?
They are loosing their dreams ambition fundamental trust ideology faith belief religion own culture.
We don't have time or we don't have ability to check their syllabus curriculum and we don't have power or unity to raise our voice against them whatever they teach our kids by the name of knowledge.
They are making our kids as a working class people who don't have a dream to attend college University.
Public school is designed only to create a labor-class to run the industrial business and other business.
You will never see an aristocratic American or any Jewish people they don't put their kids in public school. Because they don't want to spoil their kids's dream and ambition.
This is not my talks, go to google and check about on it you will get everything.
As a guardian as a father as a mother what are you doing to uplift your kids life?
The answer is Nothing.
So American Government is investing millions of dollars behind your kids not for your interest not to implement your dream but for government, they are washing our generation's brain, mind, faith, the way of thought, life stile, in every where of our generation's life American public school became successful to bring a radical change into our kids life.
In a look they are ours but they are completely out of us in their nature, taste, mind setup, dream, way of think, policies making.
That's why after end of the day our kids become a labor to serve America this is the real true.
You should not have any owe any grief for your spoiled-child because you don't have any contribution to decorate him to beautify his future.
Public school authorities are investing on our kids to make them ready as their working labor.
Finally when our kids have done their graduation from public school 95% students get plan to start their conjugal life with their partners boyfriend or girlfriend.
Only approximately 5% students make their plan for bachelors or higher education with high ambitions.
This types of 5% students are those who's family are restricted and serious on education.
But these students even though get high education but they become totally different from our community in their talks thought ideology and religious mentality.
They become a part of your family as a water into oil.
Water never mix up with oil.
For our kids transformation ethically or religiously completely we are the responsible for it.
"Kullu Mouloodin youladu alal fitrat"
People are born with duties.
Duties are classified into three aspects.
1. Amanah. (the abilities are to be relied on)
2. Responsibilities.
3. Accountabilities.
Definition of Amanah:
The attributes of a person or enterprise that provides confidences to others of the qualifications, capabilities and reliabilities of that entity to perform specific task to fulfill assigned and responsibilities.
Public school gives us following things like:
1. They are losing their Ford salat at least 3 times in a day.
That about Allah emphasises in the holy Quran 82 times and our prophet said:
"whoever doesn't pray intentionally he is not a Muslim"
2. They are getting involved with different types of "Jina" adulteries!
Jina with eyes
Jina with hands
Jina with minds
Jina with heart.
Jina is a great sins. It is not forgivable without Towbah.
A lot of Quranic verses are there.
3. They are learning how to become arrogant by the name of freedom
Freedom of speech
Freedom of lifestyle
Freedom of choices.
Our prophet said Muslim doesn't have freedom in the world.
The world is like a person for Mumin and as a heaven for Kafer (non-Muslim).
As a Muslim we must have to abide by the rules of Quran.
No way to do whatever we like.
4. They are getting educated by the knowledge of sex.
They are taught that sexual inter courses is a physical demand as like as a regular demand of our food and drinks.
According to the public school teachers "to make sex" it is not anything that will bring sins for you.
That are inspired them to have a girlfriend and boyfriend to survive their young life.
5. They are taught against Islam and against our prophet Muhammad s.
6. They have got detached from dreaming life, from ambitious life.
After getting their graduation from school they become habituated with that's life.
Some attributes become so normal to them which is great-sins to us, like:
- No prayer
- Having sex
- Taking Haram food
- Listening songs
- Watching dance
- Mix up girls and boys.
When they took them easy and normal with a part of their life but you are thinking that big-sins, a big conflict will be started in your family.
If you accept your kids activities both of you will be in same position like out of the track.
Out of Deen.
If you don't accept, your kids will be thinking to be distracted from you.
Then he/she will start to tell that you are not fit for this society like America.
Then he/she will tell you that whatever you guys are thinking that's Asian culture not American.
So we are American.
Try to be American.
Throw away your back dated and conservative thought.
Then what will you do?
What will you choose?
Your son or your Deen?
So never go to public school for your kids education.
Ask help to Almighty Allah to give you the abilities to put your kids in Islamic School.
Ameen!!!
HM Mushfique
On behalf of
Al-Quran Foundation USA Inc.